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Monday, January 13, 2025
Water 💦..... everywhere, don't let it not a 💧 drop to drink
Thursday, January 9, 2025
पर दुख्खे - Others' pain.... Vaishnava Janato...
Monday, January 6, 2025
'WILL' ............... NEVER AGES....
By the time you come to read this far here in this piece, I can see your eyebrows raising and the question - what went wrong to this fellow - reverberates within your mind.
Well,
Before we try to see what the para one of this piece is, a simple question to all busybodies:
'could you recall what you ate in the morning for breakfast? '
If you ask this question to 10 people, all busy with their day's to-dos, chances are only a very few would come out with correct answer. Reason : Our mind is too totally tuned to our task on hand for the day. And what we ate in the morning simply slips out of our mind. We feel it's not so significant to remember what we eat in the morning.
Well
You still have to wait to straighten out the scribbling in para one of this piece.
There was a gentleman with a flair to write. But preoccupied with his job he never ventured to write during his employment period. Well even after retirement, he kept off his desire to write.
One day his wife, after 67 years of marriage, passed away. It's at this juncture, to vent out his grief over loss of his better half for such a long duration, he started writing.
The title of the book :
"The Invisible Wall : Love Story that broke barriers."
The author : Harry Louis Bernstein.
Age when he started writing this book, you won't believe, it was 93. When he completed writing it, he was 96.
The book became best seller. Even today his work is very popular.
What a resounding memory at 90 + !
Had he started writing much earlier, more he would have written. The lesson : Never postpone living your passion, dream. According to people's President Dr APJ Kalam, a dream is not what you get in your sleep but what lets you not is.
At last to sum up the para one of this piece, it reads "Alzheimer".
To wrap this up on +ve note, the strong WILL goes from strength to strength and never ages.
Thursday, January 2, 2025
த்யான சாத்தியம்
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செந்தமிà®´ுà®®் நாப்பழக்கம் .................Affinity to language – learning…..
அ , ஆ
Affinity to language – learning…..
Was there to be present in annual puja celebration, ceremony or name it, call it whatever – along with my senior.
The people @ helm of affairs of this corporate is close-knit family team – comprising CEO, his better half and F-i-l.. you may elongate it to get Father-in-law.
Language at times can be funny.
God ! Where does Law fit in with spouse’s parents, siblings? Why should it?
May be let’s leave that research to die-hard anthropologists.
Coming back to puja….
A team of 5 pundits, purohits to use the Sanskrit, took charge of the hour long puja.
Began to do pushpanjali while reciting Sanskrit slogas rhythmically.
The F-i-l also kept reciting the slogas keeping apace with the veteran pundits.
My senior was amazed at the F-i-l’s ability to sing Sanskrit Slogas. For, at other occasions of interaction with, he is used to speak only in English and that too in Westminster style.
Shifting the gaze to CEO, my irresistible senior asked, “Do you also know Sanskrit?”.
The US Post-grad CEO shrugged and said, “Don’t know Sanskrit as such. Not a problem learning it. B’caz, Sanskrit is of the same script as Hindi is……..I’m quite comfortable with Hindi”
CEO might have answered in matter-of-fact or casual mode.
But instinct tells me to look at the profundity laden in his reply.
Look at his confidence, “….Not a problem learning it…” It’s not over confidence. Rather telling it like, “if you have love and passion for a language, you can simply romance it.”
I’m afraid I have an instant testimony to the feeling that you can romance a language, if you have the will, love and passion for it.
Last week at my native, I could spend some time with a relative – uncle. He spends his post-voluntary-retirement constructively helping students of a local school to excel in their academics.
He asked me to meet and talk to a group of senior secondary students. I asked him what to talk about. The students in the group have chosen commerce subject. He wanted me to talk to them about the Chartered Accountancy course, prospect of becoming a CA, and all rosy side of being a CA.
Neither being good at English nor in own mother tongue, at the outset I confessed to the students. A girl stood up and said, “Sir, you may speak in Tha-nglish”. The term colloquially used to mean hybrid of English and Tamil. Thank God I felt relieved.
As usual, I introduced myself in a few carefully and quickly rehearsed - in mind –English sentences. I requested them to tell me briefly about themselves.
One by one they started to tell me in one or two sentences in English about themselves. Unlike city convent, the flow of English is not the in thing there. Not that the students don’t understand English. The opportunity to speak in English either inside the school or off campus in the semi-urban little town is almost NIL.
Like me they must also have rehearsed in mind and clearly replied in English, though not with jet-speed.
Besides telling them about the CA course, and all rosy side of being a CA in Thang-lish, the interaction meandered down to debating why we (including myself) were not trying to communicate in language other than our own mother tongue, what holds us back etc.
The discussion also covered "isn’t possible for us to overcome this bottleneck?. The girls, perhaps, didn’t want to miss an opportunity for an interaction in English. Gradually girls started interacting in measured English. I asked them what was it that pushed them to speak in English.
All said in rhythm, “Sir, ……….Senthamizhum naappazhakkam; we can do it and we will do it”.
I left to catch my train back to pavilion on this happy note: “it’s the love, will and attitude towards learning any language……….”
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God leads...never leaves in lurch
God leads...never leaves in lurch
5:00 Hrs, 29th Jan 2015.
“Chennai Central”, “Chennai Central, Sir”-
I woke up to this waking up call from the porters.
Sprang up.
Caught hold of my roller brief.
Alighted from the stationary train.
Began my way out.
The aroma of Saravana Bhavan Coffee –
May it cost heaven! Doesn’t matter – in that
Chilly morning halted my stroll out.
Had a heart-full of this steamy coffee.
Energized resumed my way out.
Just then a lanky aged gentleman,
so fresh in the morning sporting sandal with
kumkum in the midst of his eyebrows, stopped me.
A young woman – Don’t know why
God was so cruel that he deprived her of the sight –
Kept holding the hand of the lanky gentleman.
She wanted to be led out of the station.
She didn’t have the stick, which people of her group carry usually.
Gentleman asked me, “Can you help?”
Perhaps, the so cruel God wanted to show up His
Benevolent side.
This morning, He showered that blessing on me
And made my life at least a tiny bit of purposeful.
The girl got hold of my hand.
We started out meandering through the Auto and taxi
Friends who came in and looked for their
Prospective hirers.
She said she wanted to be left at Park Station
Opposite the Central Station.
I told her I could take her across the road
And try to find another goodsam to
Take her up to Park Station.
Across the road, autos were waiting.
Crossing, there was an auto driver, also so fresh in
The early morning itself.
He too was sporting sandal with kumkum.
I told him let’s wait for a goodsam and
Leave the woman to his care for guiding her
To her desired destination.
Sometimes God does not delay his mercy.
Just then, crossed a boy, must be a college student.
He volunteered to help the lady.
Thanking God, and leaving the lady in the volunteer’s care,
got into the auto towards home.
While on the way, the driver turned philosophical,
“Sir, perhaps God didn’t want this lady to see the good and evil of this society”.
I just looked ahead.
Lord Ayyappa’s sticker was glued to his front glass on the left extreme.
On the right extreme, it was Shirdi Sai Baba’s sticker.
I just said, ”you get ready and afresh in the morning itself?”
He replied, “Yes, Sir. You know I take bath in cold water only. That’s how I have a sound body”.
Dropped me at home.
Something in me said, this man must be chewing Paan.
Taking care not to sound preachy,
I said, ”Sir, you would still have a more robust body, provided you give up your Pann masala”.
May be he did not expect it from me.
He just said, ” in home I don’t chew Sir. Only while riding”.
From the moisture that swelled in his eyes,
May I gather – rather wish and pray,
That the idea to give up Paan will linger in his soul
And one day he will give it up once and for all.
May God bless him.